Sake of Blogging
February 2, 2012 Filed Under: Boys, Friends 478 words
> Boys > Sake of BloggingI am blogging right now because I do not want to keep looking at my last post, partly because it isn’t true anymore and I raised my grade. No need to worry, although it’s not as good as I hoped it would be, or as good as I got first quarter. I guess that is senior year.
I decided to search tumblr for those “tumblr 30 day challenges” and I found this one:
A friend you have lost that you’re better off without/one you wish you had back
A friend that I’ve lost touch with is my ex-friend Steven. We became friends freshman year. My best friend and I did not know anyone at that table besides some of the guys. Also since it was freshman year, we did not know anyone else in our lunch. I did not know Steven beforehand, but I knew some of the others. He was a scrawny boy, with blonde hair and blue eyes. He was very funny, nice and easy to talk too. He was not the brightest kid, but he let my friend and I “tease/flirt” with him. He always had a magnetic necklace, that my friend and I use to take. I wore his sweatshirt a few times. I felt cool lol. Anyway sophomore year he started going to the gym more. He began working out everyday, and he wasn’t “skinny steve” anymore, now he was big steve. He had so much muscle in his torso, that he had chicken legs. He began to hang out with different people. He was turning into a douche. He began to act all “macho” and “tough”. He would curse and disrespect girls. He acted like he was a Guido (yes, like the ones at the Jersey Shore, and yes I live in New Jersey). He would pretend that he didn’t know us. At first I was hurt because I hate losing friends, no matter who they are. I thought we would be friends, but boy was I wrong. I figured I was good friends with him freshman year, that I would invite him to my sweet 16 sophomore year. He told me he would come to my party with friends of his that I invited. They all came, but he didn’t. He went to hang out with a girl. This annoyed me so much, it was rude and we haven’t really been friends since. I saw him junior year because he was in my gym class. He kept bragging about how he was having sex with his girlfriend for after prom. Seriously? So the moral of the story is, do not become a douche and that people really do change. On his facebook, he is so disrespectful. Nobody would want him as a boyfriend and he is not that smart. I don’t think he’ll go to college.
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Damn, it sounds like Steven was pretty much trying to emulate Jersey Shore guys… I think I want to cry for humanity now. I imagine that if he did it, there must be other guys out there who want to act like that, too, which is a real shame. It sucks that you lost a friend that way. Well, it sucks losing people who you thought were good friends, no matter how, but I’m sad to hear that it’s because he thought it would be “cool” to become a douchebag.
On another note, I would be more than happy to talk to you about SU. Feel free to ask me anything; email is perfectly good for me.
I’ve known a few people who’ve turned into complete douchebags from middle school up to now. Some of them act like how they used to act when they’re not with their friends, but they turn into obnoxious assholes when surrounded by them.
That’s horrible! I have lost friends the same way, though. It happens exactly like you said – they just change and become part of a different crowd. They act like douchebags. It really sucks.
We all hate losing friends, but as long as we know that we were the better one and it was their choice to become stupid, then that’s all that matters.
It is great to hear that you raised your grade after all! Senior year is meant to give you mini ‘heart attacks’ here and there. I mean, even I had one earlier this week when I heard everyone getting acceptance letters and I didn’t. But meh. Life. D:
People are expected to change when you know them from Freshmen year moving on to Sophmore, Junior, and Senior. I hate guys who works out and becomes a douchebag. I mean, working out is cool and all, but becoming like a dick and disrespecting girls is a no go. What has gone to his head? I mean like, wow. This story of Steven is just… Wow. /Shake my head. At this rate, he’ll get someone pregnant and drop out or something. D:
I guess it was faith for both of you to turn your ways and part. D:
It was a coincidence that I made a dream post :O! I guess theme parks will forever haunt us until we go there. But then again, it still haunts me after I went to Disneyland. It’s probably a call that I should do the Disney’s college band :p.
I tell the freshmen in band that they don’t need a relationship to be happy. I mean, one of the freshmen girl is now obsessed with some guy and he hurts her. It sucks but meh D:! Maybe the next guy is the “one” XD! .
This reminds me of some problem I have now. Some freak in band is obsessed with me and stalks me inside and outside of band times. ITS HORRIBLE. And one of my friends wants to file a police report or something. I can’t do anything because I don’t want to be responsible for losing another band member.
UC Irvine is pretty nice, not because of the Asian population, but because it’s not overrated like UCLA or something. But I want to transfer to USC later on ;D .
Take care ;D
It sucks losing friends. It sucks even more to know this really awesome, amazing, great person turn into this awful person that you hardly even recognize anymore. But that’s what growing up does to some people and losing friends and watching them change is just all a part of life. It just sucks though, knowing that some people are just throwing their lives away. :/
steve doesn’t sounds so much of a friend to me, though i’m sure he once was one of the best! people’s feelings change, and suddenly one day we don’t even recognize them. it’s sad, but growing seperately without growing apart is hard. we’re constantly under influence of other people, and if we’re influenced by the wrong people we’ll as well change. ohh no one said growing up was easy!!!
i hate being so busy all the time
i prefer holidays when i can do whatever i want and didn’t had to wake up so early. haha i’m already couting the days to the next!! 